February 28, 2011 § 15 Comments
Make it sound like an irrational fear you cannot control. Like a fear of something silly like bubbles or spiders, instead of what it is. Hate. If you hate different races, you are racist. If you have different sexes you are sexist. Hate is not an irrational fear, it is a choice you make. Sure it may be fed to you as a child, but as an adult once you make the choice to follow these hatreds on for the rest of your life or shake loose the prejudices passed on to you by your family.
So what to call it? Gayist? Queerist? How abotu we just classitfy all hate under bigotry. They are all the same thing, not a fear, but a hate based on something a person cannot control.
Wow, this was supposed to come off as something light, and so did not land that way
February 27, 2011 § 8 Comments
Been talking about it and it brought to mind the conversation I had with a dickhead last year.
“Gay Pride parade is just an excuse to act perverted in public. You don’t see us having straight pride parades”
My response: “Have you ever lost your job because people find out who you sleep with? You ever get beat up or vandalized because you like girls? If you kissed the person you love in public would everyone around you react in shock and horror?”
“Then every day for you is a fucking straight pride parade.”
That is what pride is about. Being open. DO things go a bit crazy? Sure, what if only one day a year you could openly celebrate your sexuality. Wouldn’t things go crazy? Of course they would. Sure theworld is getting better but the fact is gay people are killed and assaulted just for being gay. Gay people are fired after they are outted. Unless in a gay club I could never kiss a date in a public place. Yet, at the freaking mall het couples make out like crazy. (just ew, no one wants to see that). Anyway, my point is that for a day you kind of get a free pass, where anything goes and the world is a rainbow friendly village. Where you can proudly proclaim your gayness in an atmosphere that understands and shout with you in PRIDE.
February 26, 2011 § 17 Comments
So I list 7 things baout myself and then give the award to 7 others
1. Best person I know is my little brother who taught me more than I will ever teach him
2. Going to be a vet when I grow up… well,even if I don’t 😀
3. I have the most boring coming out story ever
4. I love all animals.
5. I love my weird family like crazy
6. Thebiggest thing I would like to accomplish would be to love someone and have them love me back
7. I am gay… shocking, I know.
Seven to give this award to:
February 24, 2011 § 20 Comments
Been getting nasty emails, I’ve been reading them, but not replying. I kept wanting to not read them, but nosey me… I had to see! So… finally I had enough, right after I wrote about my date he wrote a nasty about no one wants to hear about a guy “fucking my ass”. Which I thought was rather funny, because there were absolutely no details about that at the time. So I wrote back, basically saying as he was filling in the blanks, he obviously has a lot more interest in gay sex than you would expect in a het man, and maybe he should wonder why he keeps up with a blog that is rather open in what it is. About a gay man’s life, including sex.
I haven’t heard back.
Fair warning to anyone… It’s a gay thing, I think…
We can go all bitch on you. *three snaps in a triangular formation* Uh huh.
February 23, 2011 § 10 Comments
OK I like to think I don’t judge, but we all do.
One of the vets I work with is ubber religious, and I guess I consider him some what judgemental of my sexual orientation, even if he never actually says anything. Anyway….
So I am taking the cat from inside her carrier. “I don’t want the queer touching my cat” Hey it happens. I wore my fckh8 t with rainbow belt, ok, maybe he had a clue, but still.
Ubber religious doctor, I expect him to kinda take over…
“Then take your cat elsewhere” WTF? Bigot with the cat starts arguing and religious doc is sticking up for me. After moron left I said thanks to the doctor, and let slip that I thought he did not like me because I was gay. “When did I give you that impression?” Turns out I really hurt his feelings. He has a vi ew that the bible was inspired by god, but written by man, with prejudices. And especially those dealing with keeping those babies coming. And his son is gay, or was, he committed suicide six years ago.
So, I was a major asshole. Serves me right for being a judgemental prick.
February 22, 2011 § 22 Comments
ROCKED! He was amazing.
I got there and got naked inside of ten minutes. Guys are so honest about shit like that. He’s a bit older than I usually go with, he is 25, and he is freaking amazing looking. The sex was awesome! And yes SAFE. I do not do sex without condoms, not ever. I am a safety boy. And thankfully he never suggested it. Nothing turns me off quicker than someone suggesting it. I may hate the taste of latex, but safety is a priority.